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A Life Update – July 2018

01/07/18 ᛫ 27 Comments

Hey guys! It’s time for a personal post and a bit of a heart to heart. As always, I’ve gone far too long without writing one of these blog posts so today I’ve decided to make it my top priority. After recent trips to the Black Forest in Germany and Saalbach in Austria, I have a content list the length of my arm, but that can wait. I want to let you all know a bit about what’s been going on in my life both personal and blog-related. So here goes!

My 2018 Travels so Far

Let me kick off with a quick re-cap of my travels so far this year, just so you can catch up with any content you might have missed;

  • In January I retraced my steps in Chiang Mai, Thailand and enjoyed a return stop over in Doha
  • In February Scott and I went on the most epic winter road trip through the Canadian Rockies.
  • In March I enjoyed a girly trip to Manchester.
  • In May I went on my very first Cruise; a Scandinavian cruise which stopped at Tallinn, St Petersburg, Helsinki, Stockholm, Copenhagen and Oslo. I also returned to Edinburgh and visited Dundee for the first time
  • In June I have been on a road trip around The Black Forest in Germany with my best friend Nam and took a solo trip to Austria to visit an eco-spa hotel in Saalbach.

*and breathe*

Our 1 Year Homeowner Anniversary

This month Scott and I celebrated 1 full year of being in our home. We moved in last June, which I told you all about in my July 2017 life update. One year on and the house is finally complete. By complete I mean fully furnished and decorated to exactly our taste. You’d be surprised how long we went without a double bed in the spare room and a dining table in the kitchen, but we wanted to wait until we could afford good quality furniture that would last us for years to come. Our little home now has our own stamp on it and I’ve definitely found a new interest in the world of interiors (so much so that I experimented with my first interiors post). I’d way rather take a walk around the interiors department of John Lewis than do a haul in Topshop these days. Maybe that’s part of growing up but I am totally OK with it. Our home is my safe haven which I so look forward to returning to after a trip.

Finding Ways to Cope with the Loneliness of Working From Home

When we first moved into our house I really struggled with working from home. I finally had my dream home office, yet ironically I kept looking for ways to try and work elsewhere. I didn’t like the solitude and craved human interaction. It really worried me at one point as I wondered how much longer I could keep working from home, and thus, questioned my whole future as a full time blogger. I tried to speak to lots of people in a similar position to me (who work alone from home) and it was really refreshing to hear they also deal with loneliness and isolation. Since then I have a few rules to try and stick by if I have a full week of working at home. These include leaving the house at least once a day, going for a walk or a jog around lunch time and spending 1 day a week working from a different location e.g. a coffee shop or a cafe. I’ve also built friendships and relationships with some other other freelancers who work close by to me, and it’s so nice to meet up with them and share things in common. Working from home when you’re a sociable person isn’t easy, but with the right rules in place it’s definitely possible. I am so much happier with it now.

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Saying YES to more UK Adventures

At the start of 2018, one of my goals was to do more UK travel and to feature more UK destinations on my blog. Until this year I have always overlooked opportunities to travel closer to home, but the thought of seeing a new destination without the whole airport process is actually really appealing now. I also think that featuring UK destinations makes my blog accessible to more people, as I appreciate not everyone can (or wants to) travel long haul. This summer I’ll be visiting 2 UK destinations that have been on my list for quite some time; St Andrews in Scotland and Cornwall, where I’ll be staying at the Fistral Beach Hotel and Spa. I’m excited to check out the beaches in both destinations and embrace the Great British Summer (come rain or shine!).

Making the Decision to Say NO to Solo Travel

Solo travel is something I experimented with for the first time last summer when I travelled to Graz, Innsbruck and Salzburg in Austria. I then went on to take a solo trip to Bern in Switzerland and recently I also went solo to Scotland and Austria again. There are a lot of elements of solo travel that I really do love. I think overall it makes me become more present and in the moment when I travel, and I am more observant to things around me. Asking for a table for 1 at dinner doesn’t bother me in the slightest, and I relish doing things on my own time. However, when you’re working at a professional level with a brand, there is a lot more to think about than just enjoying the moment. I put pressure on myself to create great content, and this is a lot harder when I am travelling alone. I realised that I was feeling more stressed and anxious before solo trips, because I was worried the content wouldn’t be as good as I’d like it to be. So for now, I’ve made the decision to say no to solo trip opportunities if they are part of a paid campaign as I find the pressure to just be too much. I need to pursue things that make me 100% happy so for the moment I’ll be parking the solo travel opportunities.

My Upcoming Trips for 2018

So where am I heading next? Here’s an overview of my upcoming travel plans

July – St Andrews
August – Cornwall
September – Almunecar and Florida
October – A Secret Destination for Scott’s 30th (all will be revealed in time!)

Thanks so much for taking the time to catch up with me. It’s always really therapeutic to write these posts so I am definitely going to try and do them more regularly. I’d love to know if you can relate to anything I’ve talked about or if you have any tips or advice for me? If so, please leave me a comment in the box below. Jess x

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Comments

  1. Hannah says

    27th March 2019 at 9:19 pm

    Hi Jess,

    I have just started my ow blog that i just keep on my laptop but do not share with the world. I am not quite sure i am ready to do that yet and also i dot know how to post it online! I have just read your blog and loved it so much. I am now much more interested in blog writing than i ever was before. I also came back from a big trip to Australia, Dubai, Thailand and Singapore; It was incredible! I learnt so much and now love Australia especially
    Hannah xx

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  2. Karen Hutzcal says

    8th July 2018 at 10:00 pm

    Hi Jess!
    Being a retired, I can identify with you working from home. I craft and do yard work.

    I do errands afew times a week. Being on Facebook, I chat with friends. I’ll make cookies or muffins and share with my neighbours. Soon I’ll be painting signs for the Edmonton Folk Music Festival, as that’s my volunteer job.

    I’m always busy. It’s amazing that I had time to work! Looking forward to your upcoming blogs!

    Reply
    • Jess Gibson says

      18th July 2018 at 2:36 pm

      Hi Karen! I hope you’re really well? It sounds like you definitely keep nice and busy during your retirement. This is how I’d hope to be one day when I retire! I also love that you have a volunteer job. It’s important to have things that get you out of the house at any age. That’s what I’m trying to do anyway. Thanks again for your interest and support. I am missing Edmonton! x

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  3. April | April Everyday says

    29th June 2018 at 5:14 pm

    I love reading little life update posts! I’m amazed that you’ve managed to get your house completely finished in a year! Please tell me your ways haha! We’ve been in our home 6 years and our walls are still plain white with no decorations up except in a couple rooms. I find it so hard!
    Your trips for the rest of the year sound amazing! I love cornwall SO much and definitely want to head back there soon. I can’t wait to see what you get up to there!
    xo April

    Reply
    • Jess Gibson says

      6th July 2018 at 10:52 am

      Hi April! Thanks for your lovely comment. To be fair, the house didn’t need a great deal of work or rennovation when we moved in. As it was our first home we wanted something that was pretty much good to go. It’s just surface things we’ve changed like wallpaper and paint rather than structural stuff. I think for our second home we will take on more of a project. So glad to hear you love Cornwall. I hear only great things about it! Happy travels and enjoy the rest of the summer x

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  4. j says

    28th June 2018 at 8:03 am

    Love the personal update. Good to hear you are enjoying working at home now now.

    http://www.jettravels.co.uk
    jo
    x

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    • Jess Gibson says

      6th July 2018 at 10:50 am

      Thanks so much Jet. It has definitely got easier now I have settled in to it. It feels like more of a way of life now. x

      Reply
  5. Angie Silver says

    27th June 2018 at 9:17 am

    I really enjoy personal updates! I’m excited to follow your next adventures!

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    • Jess Gibson says

      6th July 2018 at 10:50 am

      Thanks so much Angie! I always look forward to following your trips too. They’re always so fabulous! x

      Reply
  6. Rachael says

    27th June 2018 at 12:14 am

    Love this post! It’s a little different but I’ve been living overseas for so long now I’ve started to realize how great the UK is. It’s made me want to travel the whole country when I finally return home! Cornwall is one of the best places – I’m jealous! Looking forward to reading about your travel closer to home 🙂

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    • Jess Gibson says

      6th July 2018 at 10:49 am

      Hi Rachael! Thanks so much for your comment and glad you liked this post. Maybe appreciating your local surroundings is part of getting older. A trip to somewhere else in the UK would not have interested me a few years ago! I just wanted to go to places as far away as possible. Now I realise there are so many beautiful places in the UK, from North to South. I really can’t wait for Cornwall. xx

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  7. Kay Strachan says

    26th June 2018 at 6:52 pm

    I love your honesty and reading your blogs. I’m going on my first solo trip next week so interesting to read about your experience. Enjoy beautiful Scotland next month!

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    • Jess Gibson says

      6th July 2018 at 10:48 am

      Thanks so much Kay, that is so nice to hear! A bit of honesty goes a long way I think. That’s so exciting about your first solo trip! Well done you. Let me know how it goes. You might find this blog post interesting to read; https://thetravelista.net/2017/06/21/8-things-i-learnt-on-my-first-solo-trip/ . x

      Reply
  8. Adriana Jennings says

    26th June 2018 at 4:40 pm

    Thanks for sharing! Definitely things I can relate to with the whole solo travelling thing and working from home alone and the loneliness that can come from that. Appreciate you sharing your advice and ways of coping X

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    • Jess Gibson says

      6th July 2018 at 10:46 am

      Thanks so much for your comment Adriana. It’s nice to know you can relate and I am not alone with these things. It’s really therapeutic to speak out on it as you find lots of other people go through the same things xx

      Reply
  9. Sara McQueen says

    26th June 2018 at 2:43 pm

    Love this! So glad I met you through the wonderful world of social (and Leeds!). Also vvv excited to see Scotland on the itinerary so much!

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    • Jess Gibson says

      6th July 2018 at 10:46 am

      Thanks Sara! So glad that we met too <3. Excited to head back to Scotland! Can't wait for St Andrews but Glasgow will be a must for me next, especially now I can pick your brains for recommendations 🙂

      Reply
  10. Fi says

    26th June 2018 at 1:40 pm

    Loved reading this and an insight into your mind Travelista, not long before you take a UK trip to Farmland where two of your bezzies will be on hand to deliver fabulous content atop the hay bales. LOVE YOU Fi xxx

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    • Jess Gibson says

      6th July 2018 at 10:45 am

      Oh thanks Ducky. I can’t wait for our weekend at the farm. Those are the weekends I truly live for. Love you x

      Reply
  11. Laura says

    26th June 2018 at 1:34 pm

    What a fantastic first half of the year you have had! Look forward to hearing about the adventures from the next 6 months!

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    • Jess Gibson says

      6th July 2018 at 10:44 am

      Thanks so much for always reading my posts and leaving a lovely comment Laura. It’s so appreciated. Looking forward to the next 6 months of the year! x

      Reply
  12. Hayley says

    26th June 2018 at 1:05 pm

    LOVE this post lady! You’ve had some amazing adventures this year far; cannot wait to see where the rest of the year takes you!

    Hayley xo
    http://www.frockmeimfamous.com

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    • Jess Gibson says

      4th July 2018 at 2:58 pm

      Thanks so much for your support as always Hayley! Hope the second part of the year is as good as the first xx

      Reply
  13. Graham says

    26th June 2018 at 10:59 am

    Work life balance. You have made some very wise choices. There is plenty of ‘luxury’ to explore and write about in the UK.

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    • Jess Gibson says

      26th June 2018 at 11:36 am

      Thanks Graham! I am looking forward to seeing more of the UK and embracing a few more staycations. Luxury without the stress of long haul travel – as you say!

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  14. Bejal says

    26th June 2018 at 10:51 am

    Really enjoyed your round up and I too have the same vie won solo travel. I always worry how I will deal with the photography side! Lolmfierad to your trip to St. Andrews as I’ve never been too.

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    • Jess Gibson says

      26th June 2018 at 11:36 am

      Thanks for your comment Bejal! Yeh the photography is definitely a struggle when travelling solo. If it was a trip independent of work commitments it would be different, and I wouldn’t feel the pressure. But even then, I believe the best part of travelling is making memories with someone you love spending time with be it a friend or a partner, so I am happy to hang up my solo travel shoes just for now. xx

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